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None of us are strangers to the pitfalls that await us as a consequence of a threesome. There’s a lot to consider, from jealous overreactions to personal guilt and resentment. In sex, it’s sometimes wholly impossible to stop collective emotions from breaching the sanctity of the “no strings attached” realm. However, certain things can prevent this hurtling onslaught in its wake. Here’s how. 

#1 Consideration: Personal Emotions

Well, the consensus among couples who’ve actively engaged in group sex is positive. Most couples are of the view that threesomes don’t necessarily lead to relationship breakdowns. Because the threesome party is organized with transparency and honesty. However, they are also of the opinion that despite all the transparency in the world. What’s more, there’s bound to be some spillover effects resulting in relationship strife. 

But these negative aftereffects aren’t necessarily a result of transparency and honesty’s failure. No, they are significant because these values are often misunderstood within relationships. 

For example, your lover might insist that they don’t have any jealousy or insecurity over your interest in a threesome. However, in most cases, this is a gross interpretation of personal emotions.

 There’s always going to be insecurity and personal turmoil if your lover decides to engage sexually with someone other than you. It’s not humanely possible to control your emotions. 

What’s important that you accept these negative feelings will emerge despite every restraint and precaution in the world. Only after accepting their reality can you devise ways to tackle their uprising. 

#2 Consideration: Sexual Insecurity

Sexual insecurity can almost instantly arise as a result of a group threesome. You or your partner might start to assess the profound impacts of your new sexual experience. And this might create an air of confusion. 

For example, certain couples have experienced that threesomes are a potent force. They can change the way you perceive sexual or emotional performance. 

Some couples can’t help but compare their techniques and sexual ammunition to a third party. They start wondering whether their methods are insufficient for their partners. This gives rise to overwhelming sexual insecurity. Such as thoughts of sexual inferiority and insufficiency run amok or lead to cognitive dissonance. In turn, it has drastically negative effects on relationships.

What helps in such troubling times is communication and constant reassurances to restore intimacy. 

Remember, nothing disrupts intimacy than the phenomenon of being off-page. We only tick with our lovers when there’s mutual understanding. It’s not a birthright, it’s an earned acquisition.

Some Helpful Tips to Ensure your Threesome Doesn’t Disrupt your Relationship

· Don’t do it with a close friend. It’s going to complicate things for the worse. 

· Set boundaries: permissible and impermissible rules. 

· Always orgasm with your lover. Climaxing with someone else may arouse overpowering feelings of insecurity and jealousy in your lover. 

Conclusion

The bottom-line: a threesome will not ruin your relationship. But there will be minor outbreaks of jealousy and overreactions. So you have to be ready for so they don’t catch you off-guard. 

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